8.5 — Blank Conflict Protocol

Use it when Prepare while calm, before the conversation. If you flood partway through, use the pause line and return.

It is done when You have written the issue as observable facts, a first-person statement with what you need, and the part of their perspective that is true.

Watch it

The same teaching, narrated — what the tool is, why it works, how to run it, and what usually goes wrong.

The page

Print this, or copy the prompts onto paper. A page you half-filled counts as filled.

• The specific issue — just what happened
• “When ___, I felt ___”, and what you need
• The part of their side that is true
• What you owned, and one sentence to lead with if it comes up again

Check what stayed 2 questions

Answer in your own words, out loud or on paper. Nothing is scored, nothing is marked, and nothing is stored — this is for noticing what you have, not for anybody to grade.

1. WB 8.5 — Blank Conflict Protocol. When do you build this page, and when do you use it?

   What the material says

   Prepare while calm, before the conversation. If you flood partway through, use the pause line and return.

   Where this comes from — Use it when

2. WB 8.5 — Blank Conflict Protocol. What does finished look like on this page?

   What the material says

   You have written the issue as observable facts, a first-person statement with what you need, and the part of their perspective that is true.

   Where this comes from — It is done when

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