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Equipped With Agency

Session 10 — The Team

4 questions from session 10, answered in your own words.

Session 10 of the series. The questions come from the session's own material — every answer below is a span of it, word for word, rather than somebody's summary.

The questions 4 questions

Answer in your own words, out loud or on paper. Nothing is scored, nothing is marked, and nothing is stored — this is for noticing what you have, not for anybody to grade.

  1. What does contact with a trusted person do to the way threat is processed?

    What the material says

    Connection recalibrates the threat architecture.

    Where this comes from — Why it works

  2. Attachment styles form early. Does that mean the way somebody relates to support is fixed for life?

    What the material says

    Attachment styles form early and are not a sentence.

    Where this comes from — Why it works

  3. Somebody asks for help and you say "I will take care of it." What does that do to their agency?

    What the material says

    Overrides agency and creates dependence

    Where this comes from — Never say this

  4. What is the week's one thing, and what must it explicitly not be about?

    What the material says

    Contact one person. Not with a problem

    Where this comes from — This week — one thing

The material itself

The Team — the handout

The full written session: what the tool is, why it works, when to use it, and what never to say.

Read the handout →