1.9 — The Repair

Use it when Use it when something between you and someone else is still broken.

It is done when You have named your part, written one specific thing you will do, and decided about a grievance you are carrying.

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• Something between you and someone else that is still broken
• Your part in it
• One thing you can do about it, and when
• A grudge that is costing you — and where you feel it
• What you decide about it. Letting go is for you, and needs no contact with anyone

Check what stayed 2 questions

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1. WB 1.9 — The Repair. When do you build this page, and when do you use it?

   What the material says

   Use when a relationship rupture is unresolved.

   Where this comes from — Use it when

2. WB 1.9 — The Repair. What does finished look like on this page?

   What the material says

   You have named your part, written one specific repair action, and made a conscious decision about a grievance you carry.

   Where this comes from — It is done when

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